MYTHS ABOUT CALLING:
Calling happens more quickly for others.
No. What we see as 'success' in another is merely the long and arduous accumulation of tears, testing and time. We're merely seeing them on this particular summit. Calling shouldn't be thought of in terms of months or years; but often, decades.
The journey of calling shouldn't be this hard.
No. As John Churton Collins says, a person often fails "because he thinks what is difficult is easy."
Your calling is only valuable when you're getting paid or recognized for it.
No. You know your true art and calling when you're willing to do it whether or not anyone sees it or pays for it. You do it because your heart won't let you do anything less. I've tried several times to quit: I couldn't. My heart wouldn't let it go.
Impact is measured by newsletter subscribers and social media "reach."
No. None of these existed when Jesus healed dying bodies or launched human history's defining revolution. Paul and Barnabas received their direction from the Holy Spirit to "go there" or "avoid that town" increasing the Gospel's "reach" and rootedness. Technology can be a tremendous vehicle for delivering our message, but there is no substitute for the direct voice of the Holy Spirit and his outpowering of power.
Taking up your cross is the opposite of following your heart's desire.
No. As a Christian, your heart is now alive with the very goodness of Jesus. The desires of that heart are noble and ought to be pursued. [Your 'flesh' may have other, ignoble desires, but we're talking about your new heart's desires here.] Taking up our cross and following our heart's desire are the same thing. Following your heart's desire and calling may be the hardest thing you could ever pursue. But that's what noble people do.
You and your calling are already fully approved: I can hear the Stadium of Witnesses roar with the Lion.
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Podcast: 'Calling As a Journey:' with guest Gary Barkalow, author of "It's Your Call"